1. wishartsolove: Laziness. I see a lot of relationships where after the two get together, they start getting lazy. What I mean by that is they start getting boring and they stop trying, just cause they’re already together.Guys, if you want your relationship to last long and be enjoyable, don’t get lazy , you took a lot of days to talk to each other, you spent a lot of time getting to know each other and eventually both of you had feelings for each other. You put a lot of effort in order for her to give you that chance or in some cases just so you could be together. You’ve worked hard to gain that relationship with her. Don’t stop trying afterwards and getting lazy just cause you two are already together. When you’re in a relationship, you should put even more effort to maintain it. As a couple, you should spend time with each other more often, talk to each other more often, or do whatever you want to do but together. Don’t get lazy , you already have what you want now you have to find a way to keep her. Boys, you need to stop with your video games and spend more time talking to her. Your girlfriend hates it when you choose your games over her. It makes her feel like she’s not that important to you anymore, because obviously you just picked video games over her. Hit her up, talk to her more. Don’t ever tell yourself “Oh I’m lazy to text her now, I’ll text her later”. Yes, it seems like just a small thing but as time goes on, it’s going to grow into a habit and you  two will drift apart. Not only will you guys stop texting each other but both of you will eventually stop talking to each other without even realizing it.In a relationship, the most important thing is effort and just enjoying each other’s presence. Think of it like this: you know how you won’t get good grades in school if you don’t try hard? Well same with a relationship, if you don’t put enough effort into it, the relationship won’t last. Don’t waste all your efforts trying to chase after that one person that you were crazy about just to lead to a breakup caused by your laziness.

    wishartsolove:

    Laziness.

    I see a lot of relationships where after the two get together, they start getting lazy. What I mean by that is they start getting boring and they stop trying, just cause they’re already together.Guys, if you want your relationship to last long and be enjoyable, don’t get lazy , you took a lot of days to talk to each other, you spent a lot of time getting to know each other and eventually both of you had feelings for each other. You put a lot of effort in order for her to give you that chance or in some cases just so you could be together. You’ve worked hard to gain that relationship with her. Don’t stop trying afterwards and getting lazy just cause you two are already together. When you’re in a relationship, you should put even more effort to maintain it. As a couple, you should spend time with each other more often, talk to each other more often, or do whatever you want to do but together. Don’t get lazy , you already have what you want now you have to find a way to keep her. Boys, you need to stop with your video games and spend more time talking to her. Your girlfriend hates it when you choose your games over her. It makes her feel like she’s not that important to you anymore, because obviously you just picked video games over her. Hit her up, talk to her more. Don’t ever tell yourself “Oh I’m lazy to text her now, I’ll text her later”. Yes, it seems like just a small thing but as time goes on, it’s going to grow into a habit and you  two will drift apart. Not only will you guys stop texting each other but both of you will eventually stop talking to each other without even realizing it.In a relationship, the most important thing is effort and just enjoying each other’s presence. Think of it like this: you know how you won’t get good grades in school if you don’t try hard? Well same with a relationship, if you don’t put enough effort into it, the relationship won’t last. Don’t waste all your efforts trying to chase after that one person that you were crazy about just to lead to a breakup caused by your laziness.

    (Source: ohfuckyeahitsnam, via giapots)
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